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Reflections on therapy, trauma recovery, relationships, and developing a kinder relationship with yourself.

The “Until” Person

6 Feb 2026

Do you put off enjoyment until everything is finished, sorted, or “deserved”? A reflection on the quiet rules we live by — and how awareness can gently loosen their grip.

Where do you go to my lovely.....

30 Jan 2026

When we are tired and stressed, our view of ourselves and others can quickly shift. This post explores the “I’m OK / You’re OK” life positions and how to notice them when they take over.